Proverbs has much to teach us regarding how to be wise in the way use our words. Oftentimes however, the areas where we struggle to keep our speech pure have far more to do with our hearts than our mouths.
Proverbs shows us the foolishness of earthly possessions and money. What God truly values are matters of character: righteousness, wisdom, instruction, integrity. The cravings of material wealth are never quenched, they never satisfy, they do not profit our soul. Instead, we are called to set our eyes on godliness and to be content with little. In so doing we will be equipped to give generously and steward honorably which is a hedge against the temptation and snare of worldly riches.
How do you build a happy home? We all desire to live in and sustain a happy home life. But how do you that? Fortunately, Proverbs holds out wisdom for the path to a happy home. God has specific order and intentions for the family and the roles therein. Wisdom is to embrace God’s ordering of the family. Harmony at home is the fruit of embracing Christ and his authoritative Word on how to govern your marriage, inform your parenting, build your family and shape your home.
The Bible describes the voice of temptation like bitter honey. The temptation to sin promises to be sweet but in the end is like bitter wormwood, poisoning the soul. In Proverbs 5, Solomon goes to great lengths to warn his son about the dangers of sexual sin. Nothing is able to bring people to ruin quite like illicit sexual passion. Therefore, whether you are single or married, the Bible equips us with strategies for resisting sexual sin.
In Proverbs chapter 4, Solomon wisely exhorts us to be vigilant to keep our hearts on the path of wisdom. He does so because he knows we live out of our heart; the heart is the key to our life, everything we do flows from it. And there are powerful messages competing for our heart's attention and affection, seeking to shape our beliefs and change us. Therefore, we must keep, indeed, guard our hearts with alertness and thoughtfulness.
In Proverbs 3 we learn that living wisely means living with complete trust in the Lord. This is challenging for a variety of reasons, namely our sinful tendencies, and our perpetual inclination to trust in our understanding and follow our heart rather than lean on the Lord and trust him fully. The most important decisions we make in our lives revolve around whom we trust. And Proverbs 3 leads us away from trusting our fickle hearts and instead, leaning in and fully trusting our faithful, wise God.
In the introduction to Proverbs, Solomon seeks to exhort his son to pursue the path of wisdom that leads to eternal life and avoid the path of folly which leads to heartache and destruction. Solomon teaches us that there are two paths in life and two voices competing for our attention and allegiance. Solomon personifies these voices as Lady Wisdom and Lady Folly. Each voice calls out to us, each voice makes promises. But only one is telling the truth. Solomon teaches us that the difference between living the good life and living foolishly is determined by whose voice you heed.
This week we begin a new series in the book of Proverbs entitled, Wisdom for Living. The book of Proverbs is unlike any other book of the Bible. It is truly unique! God knows we need wisdom and He has given us an entire book aimed at instructing us how to live wisely in our broken world. Everyone aspires to be wise, but few attain true wisdom because they fail to listen and receive God's Word. This week we will discover what wisdom is and how to attain it.
Because we have been a beneficiary of God’s love and kindness, Paul instructs us to use our lives to bless others, to devote our lives to good deeds that are excellent, that benefit and bless others. True appreciation for the gifts of God will lead one to be eager to work or do good on behalf of another. Our ultimate desire is that God would be praised because of our good works, that people would be drawn to the good news of the gospel and that Jesus would look amazingly beautiful in the transformation He brings to people’s lives. Our good works have an opportunity to make an eternal impact in the lives of those around us.
The gospel is powerful; powerful enough to save from sin and powerful enough to transform who we are. In chapter 3 of Titus, Paul provides instructions detailing how Christians should act within the local culture as citizens of a pagan nation. And he grounds our ability to live this way in the power of the gospel. God's loving kindness has reached us, saved us and is producing ongoing transformation within us, enabling us to live lives that glorify God as we are zealous to do good works.